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Just let her know that you wish she had come to you about how she was feeling, but understand maybe why she didn't. And then be honest with her about how much you will miss her.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes others need us to make the first move...in the "hangin' it all out, regardless" honesty stuff.Bobitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09671826623140228982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144171947073480592006-04-04T12:32:00.000-05:002006-04-04T12:32:00.000-05:00Everyone gave such thoughtful comments. I was goin...Everyone gave such thoughtful comments. I was going to suggest introducing her to blogging so she can express herself.Carolyn S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16460383065056980157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144167806659919172006-04-04T11:23:00.000-05:002006-04-04T11:23:00.000-05:00Thank you for all your comments. Each one of you ...Thank you for all your comments. Each one of you had a point that made a lot of sense to me. I should know better (as someone who has suffered from depression in the past) that we don't always want to talk about it, even with those closest to us. <BR/>You guys rock!Chicky Chicky Babyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18056206889322232109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144167353150765362006-04-04T11:15:00.000-05:002006-04-04T11:15:00.000-05:00Ya know when you are living with depression after ...Ya know when you are living with depression after a while I think you just start to assume that people know. I dealt with it for a year before I realized I had never spoken with my best friend about it. I realized it was really hard for her to deal with, she felt bad that she should have known and I felt bad that I didn't confide in her. Another thing about depression is that you tend to keep it bottled up, not wanting to talk about it. I hope she feels better, I know that one of the reasons I wanted to Portland move was because of my own depression, but I was the opposite, I missed the rain.Heather Beahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08715202288331819547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144114874717706632006-04-03T20:41:00.000-05:002006-04-03T20:41:00.000-05:00That's a bummer. If she depressed though, won't mo...That's a bummer. If she depressed though, won't moving make it a little harder to get a handle on it?Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00753648076473629206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144114787776580162006-04-03T20:39:00.000-05:002006-04-03T20:39:00.000-05:00Oh that sucks. As someone who suffers from depres...Oh that sucks. As someone who suffers from depression I don't hide it but even during the most open conversations it just rarely seems like the right time. And I deal w/it so when you tell people about it you get a lot of pitty. Maybe she was afraid of that. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry your friends are moving. Good friends are hard to come by, hate when they leave.<BR/><BR/>I so need a mood light.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144110074179876852006-04-03T19:21:00.000-05:002006-04-03T19:21:00.000-05:00I do think there is something about talking in per...I do think there is something about talking in person, versus on the phone. I always find it easier to be more honest and open when talking to someone face to face. Maybe she was just waiting for this opportunity.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144109610542914112006-04-03T19:13:00.000-05:002006-04-03T19:13:00.000-05:00Telling other people your secrets can make it all ...Telling other people your secrets can make it all too real. It is easier to chat about everything else so that you don't have to face your problem.ms bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06997925420763913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144108949829785552006-04-03T19:02:00.000-05:002006-04-03T19:02:00.000-05:00There are some things that I tell my closest frien...There are some things that I tell my closest friends, then there are those things that I share only with K. It's not because I don't trust my friends or think that they will understand, it is just that I am afraid that I may be labled or worse yet, pitied. I couldn't handle them feeling sorry for me, I am way too proud for that. This is completely my hang-up and no reflection on what types of friends they are. <BR/><BR/>Regardless of her reasons, I am sure she realizes what a wonderful friend she has in you.Bridgermamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16730308881568756134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144103508200583172006-04-03T17:31:00.000-05:002006-04-03T17:31:00.000-05:00If it were me I would be afraid you'd be mad at me...If it were me I would be afraid you'd be mad at me. I struggled with telling people when we moved here, because I was afraid everyone would be mad at me. So maybe she feels the same way?MrsFortunehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17326242993598760618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144102190465391012006-04-03T17:09:00.000-05:002006-04-03T17:09:00.000-05:00I'm gonna go with embarrassment. I didn't tell goo...I'm gonna go with embarrassment. I didn't tell good friends that I'd been 'diagnosed' - in advance of giving birth - with post-partum depression. Tack the word 'depression' onto anything and even the most together people shrink a little bit, and fear for what even their best friends will say or think. And seasonal-affective disorder is probably all the worse for this - she's probably heard/read in all corners that it's all in her head...<BR/><BR/>Anyhoo. You shouldn't take it personally. She's lucky that she has you as a friend. I hope for your sake and for hers that she stays nearby!Her Bad Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144090431247317142006-04-03T13:53:00.000-05:002006-04-03T13:53:00.000-05:00As someone whose closest friends don't even know I...As someone whose closest friends don't even know I have a blog (yes, I know I'm terrible but I have my reasons) I don't have much to offer except to say I'd be a bit hurt by such a glaring omission and sad that my friend might move, also.IzzyMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02665580688897720715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144083798311648312006-04-03T12:03:00.000-05:002006-04-03T12:03:00.000-05:00That is hard. I went through something similar my...That is hard. I went through something similar myself with a friend who didn't share with me when I would have expected it. I was hurt. I knew I should have been more concerned about her but it really hit me.<BR/><BR/>Divorse and other dirty laundry are often easier to talk about than depression. Admitting you are depressed is so ridden with shame and fear and all sorts of things that are tough to rationalize. And maybe it was really recently that she found out that she had this condition and this was their way of sharing. Finding out may have caused them to make really fast and intense decisions so it might not have been brewing in the background the whole time.<BR/><BR/>But most importantly you know now and you sound like an amazing friend so she can know you are in her court to help her know that she's let you in.Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17049745050947936354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144082370870261682006-04-03T11:39:00.000-05:002006-04-03T11:39:00.000-05:00Maybe she didn't have a name for it until recently...Maybe she didn't have a name for it until recently? Like maybe this season she's had a much worse time dealing with it than in the past.<BR/><BR/>I actually like NC's weather MUCH better than the NE, wouldn't mind moving there for that alone. <BR/><BR/>Hmmm... Friends not sharing all with us? How about spouses. You can live with someone for YEARS and still miss bits and pieces, eh?Chaotic Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15917862364050793777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-1144077656862639872006-04-03T10:20:00.000-05:002006-04-03T10:20:00.000-05:00Maybe she was embarrassed? Who knows. My hubz ha...Maybe she was embarrassed? Who knows. My hubz has that and it is horrible. I feel for her.<BR/><BR/>I hope she doesn't move away too :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com