tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post1441122102181298692..comments2024-03-06T05:16:15.314-05:00Comments on Chicky Chicky Baby: Tomorrow is another dayChicky Chicky Babyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18056206889322232109noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-61917367038176759602009-03-14T02:04:00.000-05:002009-03-14T02:04:00.000-05:00I hate that you have a day special for this reason...I hate that you have a day special for this reason. I hate that you are so far away, so I can't come over with some ice cream, some chocolate, and some wine and give you a big old squeezey hug. But I'm glad you are starting to write it out a bit. I think it will help a bit more each time - it has me. I hope it does you, too. xoAkittenpiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05215443551546036909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-28053987948176375732009-03-08T19:38:00.000-05:002009-03-08T19:38:00.000-05:00Wow... this really hit home for me -- partly becau...Wow... this really hit home for me -- partly because my mom died just two months after yours did (April, 2004), also from cancer, and because the last week with her was surreal as well (I posted about it here: http://northwestladybug.blogspot.com/2007/03/journaling-love-and-death.html). But also because my dad has also since found love (http://northwestladybug.blogspot.com/2006/08/finding-love-at-78_02.html) and I can only say that, hard as it's been for me in some ways, it's been a HUGE gift in others. I'm not one to give advice normally; I'll only say that if you can find a way to open your heart to this woman, you just might make three people very happy... your dad, his friend, and yup -- even YOU. :-)<BR/><BR/>CarolCarolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07918419288660146429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-76469129192427541422009-03-03T11:38:00.000-05:002009-03-03T11:38:00.000-05:00I dread Aug. 26.I know.I dread Aug. 26.<BR/><BR/>I know.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11342425698876916791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-88794503377144341352009-03-02T00:34:00.000-05:002009-03-02T00:34:00.000-05:00Yeah, baby, understood. There are some dates that ...Yeah, baby, understood. There are some dates that will never just be days on the calendar ever again. <BR/><BR/>Hugs.SUEB0Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16301963922769609715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-32953476482227315022009-03-01T19:59:00.000-05:002009-03-01T19:59:00.000-05:00Since I wasn't reading the last time you marked th...Since I wasn't reading the last time you marked this date, I will say that I am sorry for your loss.<BR/><BR/>May time not necessarily take the pain away, but at least heal the wound.<BR/><BR/>I'd say I'll pray for you, but really? That's useless coming from me. I'll have a good thought.SciFi Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10479890087443823197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-8294783114466130622009-03-01T18:32:00.000-05:002009-03-01T18:32:00.000-05:00I can't even imagine the depth of pain that comes ...I can't even imagine the depth of pain that comes with losing a loved parent, but you and your family are in my thoughts today and I am so very deeply sorry for your loss. I hope that tomorrow is a little better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-18838294411462419192009-03-01T17:12:00.000-05:002009-03-01T17:12:00.000-05:00I hope the writing helped you. I know it helped ot...I hope the writing helped you. I know it helped others. I still remember the post you wrote about the importance of keeping baby books. As always, thank you for sharing.Binkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17161541480469324280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-15873988658829122372009-03-01T04:45:00.000-05:002009-03-01T04:45:00.000-05:00((you))((you))flutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-63549654846029330322009-02-28T20:52:00.000-05:002009-02-28T20:52:00.000-05:00Thinking of you today chicka, seriously am. xoThinking of you today chicka, seriously am. xomotherbumperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16053978199395919666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-73142581270181345532009-02-28T20:17:00.000-05:002009-02-28T20:17:00.000-05:00I'm really sorry.I'm really sorry.Patois42https://www.blogger.com/profile/07764936858778730692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-71304808497912625762009-02-28T15:57:00.000-05:002009-02-28T15:57:00.000-05:00Thinking of you, T. Wish I could shield you from ...Thinking of you, T. Wish I could shield you from the awkwardness and pain.Julie Marshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386446012443269817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-34792010927889963122009-02-28T13:09:00.000-05:002009-02-28T13:09:00.000-05:00I am sad reading this. I lost my mom when I was 2...I am sad reading this. I lost my mom when I was 22 - she was 42. Losing your mom is unlike anything else one can experience. I have now outlived my mother by one year. And it is such an awkward feeling. That being said - the pain does fade and for me, some of my memories. So much else has come into my life since her death - and I have lost since her death. Those thoughts remain fresh as thoughts of her fade. But she will always be in my heart- always. So my thoughts are with you today....I do know how you feel.Ginihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11441789003856558442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-35177358962876822492009-02-28T11:16:00.000-05:002009-02-28T11:16:00.000-05:00Big hugs my friend big hugs (((((((hugs))))))))))Big hugs my friend big hugs <BR/>(((((((hugs))))))))))Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05247443626425489882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-40301632196183688972009-02-28T08:08:00.000-05:002009-02-28T08:08:00.000-05:00I am so sorry for you loss. Thoughts and prayers f...I am so sorry for you loss. Thoughts and prayers for you on this day.J from Irelandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04358890639197418489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-72314904345298708242009-02-28T01:36:00.000-05:002009-02-28T01:36:00.000-05:00:( The loss never really seems to get easier. Mu...:( The loss never really seems to get easier. Much love coming your way. *hugs*Chibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04247441931305025516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-22617887451659440682009-02-27T23:29:00.000-05:002009-02-27T23:29:00.000-05:00No words other than "I'm so sorry", and ((((hugs))...No words other than "I'm so sorry", and ((((hugs)))) coming your way.WorkingMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06401988118652082969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-21728980174175481212009-02-27T23:14:00.000-05:002009-02-27T23:14:00.000-05:00Ugh, I am coming up on 12 years... 12. I can't ev...Ugh, I am coming up on 12 years... 12. I can't even begin to wrap my head on that. I still miss my mom everyday, just like you. I wish she could have met my girls and my son. I hate that day too. I really really hate that day.<BR/>I am sorry. I hope you made it through ok. Minimal tears. Tomorrow is another day. Someday you'll be able to tell stories without a lump in the throat... but somedays you wont. <BR/>I wish I could tell you the magic day it will stop hurting but I can't. I will let you know if I ever get there.Moments Of Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07125803464469304079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-79093895870688039172009-02-27T22:36:00.000-05:002009-02-27T22:36:00.000-05:00Hugs. Your right, tomorrow is another day, and it...Hugs. Your right, tomorrow is another day, and it won't hurt as bad, but it will never go away. Hang in there. Hug your girls. Mine make me feel better!<BR/><BR/>MissyMissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10648325812333011430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-3880021525683475292009-02-27T21:22:00.000-05:002009-02-27T21:22:00.000-05:00So hard. The day I knew my daughter was pregnant ...So hard. The day I knew my daughter was pregnant I found myself out on the back porch talking to the stars. Do you know, Mum? <BR/>Crying.MARY Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13178370815712313585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-16071973096731348912009-02-27T21:01:00.000-05:002009-02-27T21:01:00.000-05:00"That day" is coming for me. My Mom is dying and I..."That day" is coming for me. My Mom is dying and I cried as I read your post. I often think how much I will miss her, how I will pick up the phone to call her and she won't be there. <BR/>Meanwhile, I try to remember every second of now.<BR/>I am so sorry your mom is gone.Chollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17927379448478079159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-22593741571789842512009-02-27T18:48:00.000-05:002009-02-27T18:48:00.000-05:00I hope you get a date and some time with those ros...I hope you get a date and some time with those roses very soon.Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14586323120994967027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-31594029813236655422009-02-27T18:39:00.000-05:002009-02-27T18:39:00.000-05:00My thoughts are with you tonight...My thoughts are with you tonight...Magshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16943944132576611470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-73487380656316437322009-02-27T17:51:00.000-05:002009-02-27T17:51:00.000-05:00{{{hugs}}} Losing a parent is so hard, although I ...{{{hugs}}} <BR/><BR/>Losing a parent is so hard, although I think losing a mama is even harder, especially one as young as your own. My heart goes out to you.Fairly Odd Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11974404093257620566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-17943468494045238072009-02-27T17:41:00.000-05:002009-02-27T17:41:00.000-05:00{{hugs chicky mama}}Writing it out is a damned goo...{{hugs chicky mama}}<BR/><BR/>Writing it out is a damned good thing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17779098.post-6428757290255357342009-02-27T16:15:00.000-05:002009-02-27T16:15:00.000-05:00I have only been following you for a short time ( ...I have only been following you for a short time ( via The Trenches) but I adore your blog and am so sorry for the day you must be having! Thoughts and prayers are going out your way. And... from where I am... she knows and loves your children and is smiling down on them, I am sure! JennJenn@ The Crazieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09989338883714465614noreply@blogger.com